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Overseas Sports Gaming Keeps Gaming Devotees at Their PC’s

Tuesday, February 17th, 2009

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Some gamblers will likely have seen the phrase “offshore sports betting”, but aren’t completely convinced of what it implies. A foreign gambling site in effect runs outside the territory of a distinct state on the other hand it could mean an networked betting site that situates their main computers in a land where online betting isn’t disallowed. In a nutshell then, it’s a gambling establishment working outside of the laws of the area of the better. Live sports wagering world wide web sites are by and large governed by 3 structures. They are the OSGA (the Offshore Gaming Association), the IGC (Interactive Gaming Council) and the Fidelity Trust Gaming Association (the FTGA).

The Offshore Gaming Association is a self-controlling agency which presently keeps tabs on the current offshore sports gaming business, they labor to also provide betting buffs the capacity to easily discover honorable internet sites to play games of fate with. It labors to champion betting fanatic’s rights, additionally they don’t impose any enrollment costs. The agency is an expert not to mention equitable third party agency who convey nonpartisan assessments, founded around customer feedback, objective scrutiny, phone calls, prompts also to provide industry information.

The Interactive Gaming Council are a not-for-profit organisation. The council was created to allow an arena for concerned parties to discuss issues not to mention to move forward shared matters in the global interactive gambling business, to ensure open not to mention level headed commercial standards and methods which endeavor to enhance customer faith in internet based gambling merchandise and functions, and to be of service as the sports gaming industry’s general practise advocate and in addition the IGC offers an info clearing house.

The IGC have built a reputation for encouraging safety, candor and credibility on account of the rigid criteria it establishes, and also its allure to concerns of exemplary practise. The Interactive Gaming Council regularizes offshore sports betting via recommending an extraordinary ten point standard procedure code and also charges sports gaming business concerns license fees for publishing their logo. Unfulfilled gaming buffs may also report their problems to the Interactive Gaming Council.

The Fidelity Trust Gaming Association was founded in order to set a standard to upgrade the criteria of computer accessible gambling operations. The IGC proposerealize that carrying on business with respected partners, they can perfect a coalition of the fairest and professional overseas betting companies worldwide.

These are governing bodies that manage the behavior practised by web based gambling and which should aid to ease most if not all of the apprehensions experienced by cynics. Web based sports betting internet sites are totally safe, due to the fact that personal data should not be requested and also the payouts not to mention the odds are equivalent to your usual Vegas-style wager. They eradicate the travel costs, but retain of a conventional gambling casino, however today you are enabled to wager in your home.

How Many Winners Do Elottery Have?

Tuesday, February 17th, 2009

A lotto consortium is a secure and simplified means to play the lottery without blowing a colleague’s hard earned cash; one only requires care to set up and with the correct lotto contracts in place or possibly an elottery consortium. Every now and then perhaps it can be tricky when dealing with the matter of cash and can even have individuals mad with one another. That is why a 3rd individual who addresses the cash is thus a good idea.

Accordingly, to be the consortium leader and buy the lottery tickets for the UK Lotto you have to live in the UK. This does not mean that you must reside in the United Kingdom to take part in the UK Lottery though. All you need to do to establish or join a lottery syndicate and have the tickets purchased in the United Kingdom. When the lottery draw takes place then all you need to do is tick-off your lotto numbers. Colleagues, friends and fellow workers placing their cash jointly to purchase multiple lottery tickets is not a recent conception! There have been various stories of factory employee’s and acquaintances that have won the jackpot. Surprisingly though, even when they have acquired a considerable amount of money they still return to work as normal.

Well, that’s them, for us it appears an e-lottery is in all probability the most effective means of winning the lotto. The idea functions on one primary pattern which is the more tickets your syndicate buys the better your likelihood is of succeeding. There are however still those individuals that seem to win with just one lottery ticket although they’re exceptional, though a couple of people are capable of winning the jackpot by purchasing one or 2 tickets on their way home from the office. Still an increasingly favorite process for winning requires the use of syndicates. This procedure presents you with a lot more chances to win by buying as many lottery tickets as imaginable.

Valuable Lessons: Past and Present

Saturday, February 14th, 2009

Rough times are some of life’s most generous teachers. When viewed from a wide perspective, these difficult yesterdays transform into beautiful todays.

We can find magnificent blessings in exceedingly difficult times. If we observe closely, a ray of light–a very small ray at first–begins to reveal the reasons why we needed to travel rough roads.

An English proverb states, “A stumble may prevent a fall.” Who would not rather stumble if it would prevent a tragic accident or a deeply sad regret in the future?

“Stumbles” wake us upshow us that we’ve taken the wrong path. We see, perhaps for the first time, that if we had not stumbled, we would not be standing as straight and strong this moment.

The sun breaks through each overcast sky, and we find ourselves wiser and more resilientable to see with a joyful spiritual vision. Then we receive one of the greatest spiritual gifts: the recognition of authentic happiness. Authentic happiness is true joy that lives within the soul. It is not a reaction to material possessions or events. It is a deep inner appreciative joy that follows us in spite of circumstances.

Emerson beautifully described authentic happiness when he wrote, “The sun illuminates only the eye of the man, but shines into the heart of the child. In the presence of nature, a wild delight runs through the man, in spite of real sorrows.”

Our life stories, with all their transitions and challenges, can be exciting page turners. We must simply move past the introduction into the heart of the plot where the drama and adventure unfold.

Allow the first chapter of your story to teach you, no matter how difficult it might have been. Let its valuable lessons inspire a future that you can envision with enthusiastic anticipation. Your story is waiting to be written, and only you can write the final copy.

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Be That Miracle

Saturday, February 14th, 2009

You are a human being, right? You also believe you are either male or female, right? You also have other roles you play in your life, like mother, father, brother, sister, employee, employer, boss, manager, in-law — and the list, I’m sure, goes on. But have you ever thought of yourself as a miracle. Not in the sense of your birth. Of course, that is a miracle. In the sense of your every day life. Do you walk around all day long and see yourself as a miracle worker?

If you did, just imagine how much taller you would stand, less rushed you would be, and how much fear you would live without. Well, sit straighter right now. Because you are. You are a miracle. You are a miracle worker, if you choose to be. You have been given that choice too.

Earlier this year, I had the pleasure of riding in the limo with Deepak Chopra, on his way to speak at the IONS conference in Crystal City, Arlington, Virginia. And this was one of the topics that morning with everyone in the car. We tossed back and forth the characteristics of a miracle and all the other angles. Although it was just one of many interesting conversations I enjoyed that week, this one instantly changed my life.

When we got closer to the hotel, the car grew quiet except for the purring of the engine. Deepak was meditating, and I joyously recorded the wisdom of our conversation and all that was churning inside of me.

In big bold letters, “If I want to have a miracle, be that miracle,” flowed from my pen. I stopped, stunned. I couldn’t continue writing nor look up. Tears quietly rolled down my cheek. The message was so powerful it turned into a muffled sob. My skin tingled and my cheeks flushed with embarrassment even though I wasn’t sure who, if anyone, was watching me.

A hand touched my shoulder. Our eyes met. The corners of Deepaks eyes were watery too. I knew in that instant he received the same message. No words were exchanged just a nod from him. Later that day, in his stage presentation, he discussed this event incognito.

The power of joined energy is a miracle. The power of our own energy is a miracle waiting for a decision to happen. It begins with our decision. We have the power of miracles.

Miracles take action. It takes generosity. It takes selfishness. It takes a second, a minute, or ten minutes. The bottom line is:

“If you want to have a miracle, be that miracle.”

Since this beautiful moment of tying energy this same message, same wording, has repeated itself in a book, and other places. Even though they weren’t as powerful as that moment when our eyes locked, it still shows that we need to hear it, be reminded of it, consistently until we decide to inherent it into our daily beliefs and life.

This message doesn’t just work during the holiday season. It is there for our choice every waking moment. You are the tree that lives in the forest and help the forest be a forest. It is the tree that falls hard in the forest but gently ripples into the rest of the world.

The miracles you create in the check out line at the grocery store with people in front of you, behind you, and the cashier, are miracles. don’t just wish for miracles. Be that miracle, everyday, every second, and it begins with a new way of looking at yourself. Be a miracle to yourself and let it ripple out. Stand tall, walk like the miracle you are. Let it touch everyone today, tomorrow, next year, and the year after. The world is changing because of miracles. Be that miracle.

European Ski Resorts May Suffer Thanks to the Increased Price of Energy

Friday, February 13th, 2009

It has been predicted that Europes biggest 665 ski areas perhaps will be cut back to 395 by 2045. Abela Bellucci said that ski resorts will suffer earlier than that, not due to a want of snow simply due to a universal contraction in purchasing power coupled with the price of oil. And what about climate change? Climatologists have shown that a doubling of CO2 levels will augment ground temps by 4 to 5 degrees. Notwithstanding there are still unanswered queries. The speed of warming and the aftermath on the ski resorts climate. A couple Celsius warming up in the last 100 yrs hasn’t been seen in the last one million yrs. Even during the close of the glacial epoch 21000 yrs ago the warming of five degrees was over a period of 5 to 8 thousand yrs. Prior to that Grand Massif and Montgenevre were below glaciers and Grand Massif would have been the same as Siberia.

And so what does the future hold for low level skiing fields domains? Electricity troubles will commence to be sensed by 2013 – 19, leading to more costs for ski accommodation, airport transfer businesses and skiing lift businesses alike – so it may well be the end of weekend ski deals. Most of our economy hinges upon oil and France purchases 85 percent. The current total is five percent of GDP. However if the cost of crude oil grows as anticipated that will make up 37 % of gross domestic product, you can guess the down turn. The French Alps will witness the cost of agricultural commodities climbing, flora species will shift because of a adjustment in rain patterns. People will quit the region due to the summer heat. Hydro-power will be a invaluable resource however it isn’t certain whether it will be a boon since there will be a lot less rainfall, a lot of water in the winter and much less in the summer.

7 Surprising Keys to Happiness

Wednesday, February 11th, 2009

Have you ever had one of those days where you just wish you
were in a better mood? Perhaps you tried to shift your state
of mind to something better but struggled to achieve it.

Sometimes we get stuck in our own ’stinking thinking’ and
forget how easy it is to feel happier, so here are seven
simple ways to lift your mood that many people have found
useful and some of them may surprise you!

1. Go for a walk.

Most folk know that going for a short daily walk is one of
the best forms of exercise. If you can, go into a natural
environment with flowers, trees and birds. What will you
notice first? The different shades of greenery, the fresh
smell of country air, the bird sounds, or the sunlight
shining through the tree foliage.

2. Listen to some quality music.

Music creates magical effects. It can shift the listeners
state
within moments. Why not dig out that album you haven’t
listened to in ages or why not tune in your radio to
something you’ve never listened to before.

3. Think of others less fortunate.

The fact that you are reading this article suggests that you
are probably much better off than many, many people on this
planet! What if you were to imagine being in space looking
down on the amazing beautiful earth, noticing all the oceans
and lands with the clouds above… And then thinking about
the fact that there are many human beings that are starving,
homeless and in lots of pain… Allow your compassion for
them to grow.

4. Read something radical!

How many different types of magazines can you get these
days?! Have you ever waltzed into a big newsagents and just
browsed through the magazine racks? It’s incredible. Why not
buy a magazine you wouldn’t normally buy. You never know you
may discover something wonderful!

5. Laughing at laughter.

Have you ever had the experience when you just laugh for no
good reason? Isn’t it great! Laughter is one of the best
ways to lift your spirits. Can’t think of anything funny?
Try grinning at yourself insanely in the mirror and notice
how difficult it becomes to control your giggle muscles!

6. Simple breathing meditation.

A great exercise that you can do anywhere is a simple
breathing meditation. No need to dress in orange robes.
Simply find yourself in a comfortable sitting position with
your back straight. Now close your eyes and become aware of
the flow of air into and out of your nostrils. That’s it! Do
this for 10/15 minutes and you’ll find yourself pleasantly
surprised how you feel afterward.

7. Doodling just for fun!

Remember when you were young and you used to doodle with
crayons for hours. Kids love drawing silly little pictures,
why not adults? So get some pens, pencils, crayons or
whatever you have and just draw – doodle away until your
state of mind shifts.

You might agree that these are all pretty simple and that’s
what’s so good about them. Making changes, mundane or
profoundly life-changing, are easily and quickly achieved by
putting into action simple ideas, methods, tools and
techniques.

Colin G Smith is a licensed Master Practitioner of Neuro-
Linguistic Programming (NLP) and author of ‘The NLP
ToolBox’, a personal development book that enables the
reader to master any area of their life with amazing speed.
Complete information on Colin G Smith’s books are available
at his website, including a FREE personal development eBook.
http://www.NLPToolBox.com

Finally an Appeal to the Hotels to Reduce Wi-Fi Prices

Wednesday, February 11th, 2009

If you have stayed in a hotel in the recent past, you would have realized how difficult it suddenly becomes to reply to your emails, browse your favourite websites, or catch up with your friends on the messenger.

Hotels seem oblivious to the problems faced by travellers and Wi-Fi prices in most hotels have stayed high for a long time now. To add to the confusion there are several kinds of pricing structures in place, time based charge, usage based charge or even a combination of the two.

Now Expedia, the leading travel website has appealed to the hotels to lower the Wi-Fi access prices and simplify the pricing models. According to Alison Couper, the company’s communications director, getting online while travelling should be a simple and cost effective process, but in reality, it is exactly the opposite.

Ms Couper also has some advice for travellers while choosing hotels. According to her, hotels with business-centres, usually offer broadband wireless access for free, even if it is in a limited area, or provide tariff, which includes the charge for broadband access. Moreover, Expedia has found in its research that hotels with slightly lower star rating have a better chance of providing cheaper or free Wi-Fi access along with other extras, making them a significantly more economical option if you cannot resist getting online.

Whatever Happened to You?

Wednesday, February 11th, 2009

Whatever happened to all the dreams? The wants, the desires, the hopes, the cravings, the appetite, the passion? The aspirations of youth? Where did you go? Whatever happened to you?

Last night a footballer gained admittance to the football folklore of Spain. He burst onto the field in the dying minutes of the game and scored twice to rescue his team from a hopeless situation.
Well so what, we hear you say.

In 1992 Julen Guerrero was a household name. An attractive, talented, insightful footballer who magnetised the crowds and naturally had those with big cheque books drooling for his signature. Everyone wanted to sign him.

All he wanted to do was play for ‘his’ club. He saw it as an essential part of his life. The core of his being. He rejected all offers to stay in the North of Spain. Then the inevitable happened, a new coach arrived. This new coach didn’t want his talent. Took an instant dislike to him and he was out of the team. He just didn’t fit. For the next nine seasons he practiced new skills and played in the reserve team waiting for his opportunity. Waiting for a new manager. And this week it happened. He’s off again.

The bottom line is, it’s never too late. It’s never too late to overcome what has happened to you. It’s never too late to reinvent yourself.

Richard Restak, in his book, the New Brain discusses the fact that contrary to common belief the brain doesn’t peak when we are adolescents and go down hill from there. In fact the research proves that you can, regardless of age, keep delivering outstanding performances whatever your age.

All you need is a dream and practice. The unspoken, untaught method of success at any age is effort. How much effort are you willing to put in, in order to reach your dreams?

Ask yourself: What stops me achieving my dreams?

Is it the television?
When given the option of practicing the skills necessary to succeed or watching TV what do you choose?

Is it the ‘have to’ jobs?
I ‘have to’ wash the car. I ‘have to’ read the emails. I ‘have to’ play the computer game. I ‘have to’ prepare dinner. I ‘have to’ do the washing up. I ‘have to’ do the gardening. I ‘have to’ take the dog for a walk.

What excuse do you give yourself to stop practicing? What is the excuse you use to ensure that when you do practice your body and brain are tired and you cannot give 100%?

What is it?

Practice guarantees success.

It is a known fact that the difference between the successful and the also rans is the dedication to practice.

We recently read that David Renwick the British caddie for the world number one golfer, Vijay Singh, is thinking of resigning because of the hours Vijay spends practicing. Even though he is number one in the world Vijay is said to be the first on the driving range and the last to leave. One person estimates that he hits an average of 500 balls a day on the range.

Vijay took the world number one slot from Tiger Woods, last September, when he was 41 years of age.

He became world number one through practice.

What about you? What is going to happen to you?

Good Luck.

Graham and Julie.

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Creativity Theory

Tuesday, February 10th, 2009

Elements of Creativity Theory include:

What are the definitions of and differences between creativity and innovation? There is much confusion, for instance, Franklin (2003) writes that “innovation is anything that somebody thinks is a great idea.” At a minimum, creativity can be defined as problem identification and idea generation whilst innovation can be defined as idea selection, development and commercialisation. Innovation often means that outside decision makers have to get involved, as complete development and commercialisation commonly requires the competencies and knowledge of a team. Different competencies, structures, processes, resources and time-scales are required.

Common characteristics of creative people. Do creative people have common characteristics that we can identify, so that we can hire the right people? Some firms do not engage in creative activities because of a belief that “special” people are needed. Many theorists and practitioners think that there are common characteristics, such as tolerance to ambiguity and risk taking. However, many others argue that there are none (“For sixteen years I have been trying to find some common denominator which seems to apply to all creative people. There aren’t any. If I could find five or six characteristics I might be more successful at hiring them. I could make a list of curiosity, vocabulary, good visual imagery etc and then I could interview hundreds of people and hire the best. But I don’t know of any common characteristic. We’ve got fifty copywriters and I suppose the good ones are judged at the end of the year, when we compare how many successful campaigns they have created”).

Learning versus talent. Can creativity be learned and developed or is it a talent / special gift? Why is it that some people just are more creative? Nature nurture arguments are notoriously inconclusive and trait theories assume stability across situations and time. The best way to answer this question is to investigate whether creativity improves with practice. The experience curve, automisation, learning theories and the experiences of practitioners suggest that it does improve but there are caveats.

Motivation. Motivation is arguably more important than nature / nurture or traits. Someone with natural ability or placed in the right environment may not take advantage of it unless motivated. There is intrinsic motivation, synergistic and non-synergistic extrinsic motivation. How can it be induced and measured? There are many elements: material reward, progress to the ideal self, self-determination, self-evaluation, feedback, enjoyment, competency expansion, recognition and feasibility.

Blocks to creativity and organisational culture. What are the blocks to creativity and how can they be overcome? We can all be more creative, so what is stopping us? There are many blocks such as evaluation apprehension (in its many forms) and lack of adequate finance and resources. Separating creative from critical thinking, incremental productivity, tools that draw out tacit knowledge and using frameworks to trigger flow are some of the effective unblocking techniques. What is psychological safety and freedom? What properties of an organisational culture cultivate productivity?

Organisational structure. What properties of an organisational structure most foster creativity? There are many reasons why an entity has a particular organisational structure: history, logistics, market segmentation, product line, strategy and so forth. It is often unreasonable to ask a firm to change its organisational structure, so how do we get around this problem?

Group structure What is the most effective team structure? Many people who are acknowledged to have made great contributions to society have worked alone, but it is very easy for individuals to go “off track” and feedback is required to some degree, as well as other things. It is also very difficult to separate the idea from its influences. Many others work in pairs or small teams, as this reduces the negative effects of large groups. Successful firms generally start off as very small, creative enterprises. Many people think that brainstorming in large groups enhances creativity, but large groups bring with them politics, status differentials, group think, dilution of ideas and conformity among other things.

The role of knowledge. What type and level of knowledge helps creativity most? Can someone with limited knowledge of a field make a significant contribution to it? Does excess knowledge cause blinkered vision? Intellectual cross-pollination fosters creativity, but how do we overcome competency traps and other negatives? How do we frame-break, reduce path dependency and collaborate effectively?

Radical versus incremental creativity. Radical / transformational / disruptive creativity is very much glamorised. But is this what is required most often? Is it wiser to target radical or incremental ideas? Is radical really radical or the result of incremental improvement? How is radical defined? If we want a radical idea as opposed to an incremental change, what are the implications? Incremental and radical creativity require vastly different structures, processes, skills and resources.

Structure & goals. Many creative people object to structure and goals – they argue they interfere with thought processes and originality; there is a very fine line between structure and conformity. Does structure help trigger a flow of good ideas? Do structure and goals help set the boundaries of a problem and produce more output that when an individual is simply allowed to “do their best?” Do structure and goals help us achieve the objective more rapidly? How many people have a half finished novel or screenplay in their office?

Process. Many people question the concept that creativity can be a process. Ask many practitioners what process they engage in and they may well deny there is one. But if you examine the activities of many creative people, common patterns of behaviour emerge. This common process makes insight / eureka / the aha! experience more likely. The process includes identifying and intensely investigating the problem, forcing production of ideas using creative versus critical thinking and other techniques; seeking stimuli and allowing the unconscious mind to take over by engaging in rest and unrelated activities.

Valuation. How do we value an idea, so as to decide how to invest resources? Even a painter who creates for pure pleasure has to decide which one of his ideas is best; there is always a value system and (some argue) always some sort of promotional instinct. There are decisions as to whether you are looking for applied creativity and who the consumer is; how do they benefit? There is no sure fire way to evaluate perfectly because there is no sure fire route to commercial success. But we can benchmark against those types of ideas that have succeeded in the past; firms must make a decision as to their strategic, competence and technical fit; there are comparisons against rivals and practical impediments; how do we make the go or kill decision and what are the trade-offs? A quantitative tool for measuring the value of ideas has been developed.

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Kal Bishop is a management consultant based in London, UK. His specialities include Knowledge Management and Creativity and Innovation Management. He has consulted in the visual media and software industries and for clients such as Toshiba and Transport for London. He has led Improv, creativity and innovation workshops, exhibited artwork in San Francisco, Los Angeles and London and written a number of screenplays. He is a passionate traveller. He can be reached at http://managing-creativity.com/.

The Difference Between Approval and Appreciation

Wednesday, February 4th, 2009

Having worked with individuals, couples, families and business partners for 35 years, helping them learn to resolve conflict, I have often been faced with the difficulties that occur when people are confused about the difference between approval with appreciation. Have you ever wondered about the difference between approval and appreciation? Most of us have never actually thought about it, yet if we do think about it, we realize that we feel very differently when we receive approval as opposed to receiving appreciation. There are good reasons for this.

Approval is something we give from a wounded, controlling part of us. Approval is conditional upon the other person performing in the way we want or expect. Approval is manipulative – that is, we give it with an outcome in mind. We hope that the other person will continue to do what we want as a result of the approval.

Appreciation, on the other hand, is something we offer from a whole loving place within – what I call the loving Adult. It comes from the heart and is offered spontaneously as the heart wells up with feelings of delight, awe, joy, or love regarding another’s way of being. Appreciation has much more to do with the essence of a person rather than with performance. We are appreciating a person’s core Self, who they really are and the results of who they are, rather than what they do and their performance. With appreciation, there is no attachment to the outcome, no expectation that the other should or will continue to perform. Appreciation is a true gift.

Often, when someone says they want appreciation or do not feel appreciated, what they are really seeking is approval. It is the wounded part of them who is not feeling seen and appreciated within – they are not seeing and appreciating themselves so they need it from others to feel worthy. The wounded self of the individual projects outward the inner need to be seen, understood and appreciated and pulls from others to get this need met. Whenever I hear someone say that they do not feel appreciated, I know that their essence – their Inner Child – is not being seen and loved by their own inner adult.

When we are giving ourselves the attention and appreciation that we need and we then receive appreciation from others, it feels wonderful but it is the icing on the cake, not the cake itself. When it becomes the cake itself, then we need to look within and recognize that we have handed over to others the job of defining and validating our own worth and lovability.

When you share something about yourself with the intent of getting approval, attention or appreciation, it doesn’t feel like sharing to other people. Instead they feel pulled at to validate you. When you share something about yourself with the intent of offering something to others, it feels like a gift. This is clearly illustrated in the wonderful movie, Good Will Hunting. In this movie the therapist, played by Robin Williams, shares much personal information about himself with his client Will, an angry and resistant young man. He shared it, not because he wanted or needed anything back, but purely to help Will feel safe in opening to his own pain.

We can all challenge ourselves to be aware of our intent when we offer positive feedback to others – is it a true gift or does it have strings attached? And we can challenge ourselves to be aware of our intent when we share things about ourselves – are we giving or trying to get? Giving to get doesn’t feel good to others who are at the other end of the pull, and getting what we want from others feels good only for the moment, but is ultimately tiring for us. It is tiring to always be trying to get from others what we need to be giving to ourselves.

Giving appreciation and sharing ourselves from a loving heart, with no need to get anything back, will always feel wonderful and energizing to us and to others.

Margaret Paul, Ph.D. is the best-selling author and co-author of eight books, including “Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You?” She is the co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding healing process. Learn Inner Bonding now!

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